CHEATING IS A CHOICE NOT A MANDATE!! (cont. part).

      Cheating; by definition is being unfaithful to somebody and intending to mislead or deceive for personal gain.

But why do people cheat generally,is it about SEX?

     Psychologically more then half of men who cheat could rather say that they have close friends who cheat,or hanging around with friends who are unfaithful creating an impression that cheating is okey,just because everybody is doing it.

     Most answers you get when you ask a "real men"why they cheat could be.....

       *she was constantly bitching at me.i had to get out there.    

      *she makes me feel like am a fool.so i stopped being real.       

      *i didnt mean it,it was accidental.....etc.

Those that claim it was "an accident" are completely and totally full of it.they choose to cheat for one selfishness reason.

        Cheating comes in veriety and forms,but are all equally devastating;

SEXUAL SATISFACTION; when one of the couple/partner become becomes too busy or too tired neglecting the other partner feelings,or taking non-responsibility of most issues,it can lead to one partner seeking sexual satisfaction,affection and attention else where.

INSECURITY; another major factor for cheating is the act of lack of self-esteem,self pity,wanting to feel young again,lack of self confidence,fear of being lonely,could result in one partner looking for comfort elsewhere.

OPPORTUNITY; when a partner get bored or curious for whatever reason and is looking for a way to reignite some passion into their lives,they take the slightest opportunity to bringing back that happy person in them.

RESENTMENT; most people cheat out of resentment;this motivation for cheating could be seen as a cry for attention and lack of communication because when someone feels neglected in a relationship,they can do all manners of adulterous act to regain control over their partner.                                                                                        

          While others are just too POLYGAMOUS AT CHEATING.

*They cheat for career advancement.  

*They cheat on their spouse with people known to both of them e.g neighbors,wife's best friend...etc

*The one who still feel they are single and are constantly looking out for flings.

*The cheaters who claim to be single and date women inspite of having wife and children.     

          These categories of people are know as SERIAL CHEATERS. they cheat their way through their relationship.Some men and women can't comprehend the fact of being with just one partner for the rest of their lives.

            RELATIONSHIP is everything,taking help of a therapist or a counselor,by so doing there is hope that your spouse/partner may recover as well as your relationship.

DISCLAIMER:;This article make use of male pronouns,it should be noted that this usage is only for convenience of reading and does not intend to hurt the sentiments of male readers.